This is my last post for this semester in Public Relations. After tomorrow, it will be up to me if I would like to continue it. I have enjoyed writing. I think will keep this post up because I am hoping it will improve on my writing skills.
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Last post this semester.
This is my last post for this semester in Public Relations. After tomorrow, it will be up to me if I would like to continue it. I have enjoyed writing. I think will keep this post up because I am hoping it will improve on my writing skills.
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Steps in presenting...
Friday, November 27, 2009
How to work a room...
I was on the internet the other day and I came across this great article. I thought I would share it with everyone. I know that it is difficult for people to go out and socialize. I think these tips give you a better idea on how to work a room when you have to go to an event, or a meeting or even just an evening out with your friends.
1. Be more of a host and less of a guest. “Susan Roane” and “Letitia Baldridge" say there are two types of people at a party: hosts and guests. People like hosts more because they make introductions, and make people more comfortable. Guests tend to need attention and maintenance. Susan wrote the ageless book “How to Work a Room”:http://www.susanroane.com/books_work.html and Letitia wrote “Executive Manners”:http://www.allbusiness.com/management-companies-enterprises/102143-1.html.
2. Avoid permanently joining a “rock pile.” A rock pile is a pack of people in a tight circle. It’s natural to huddle because it makes us feel safe, but it borders on anti-social.
3. Dress for the party. The more junior you are, the better you should dress. I always try to dress up because of my lower-than-average IQ. On the other hand, an advanced networking strategy is to show up severely under/over-dressed. If you’re caught off guard with an impromptu invite, execute under-dressed (aww shucks) “Mark Zuckerburg’s Adidas flip-flop routine.”
4. Don’t “hotbox”. Hotboxing is squaring the shoulders front and center to one person. In groups one person will often “hotbox” the target/VIP of the group. Hotboxing in a one-on-one conversation is OK, but it excludes others from joining.
5. Put your coat and bag down. Your coat is non-verbal communication that you: a) need a shield; b) just got there; c) don’t trust the host’s coat check; d) are not healthy enough to keep your body at 98.6; e) are imminently about to leave. Women can be forgiven for keeping a purse, but it’s a networking sin for a man to keep a ‘man-purse’ (i.e. backpack, tote- or laptop-bag).
6. Mentor someone about your–or your company’s–core competence. Since Duck9 educates college students about FICO scores and debt minimization, I have networking talking points on FICO scores and the urban legends that surround them. It transitions nicely from the what-do-you-do-for-work question. It also adds some substance to party conversations and clearly brands you as a person. I’m the duck dude, with the magnet for a card, that does credit education.
7. Don’t forget to get mentored as well. A great guy I know has one rule for social-professional success: his party goal is to learn three new things at every event. It is very effective. He tilts his head like my shih tzu and gets all sorts of credit for being a great listener.
8. Be a good host while you’re someone else’s guest. Say ‘Hi’ to wall flowers. I once saw a tier-1 celebrity work the fringe of the room. He must have said ‘Hi’ to 12 wallflowers. Actors don’t get paid to act, they get paid to promote. As entrepreneurs, we better promote ourselves by being gracious to everyone. This means making introductions, too. Introduce a junior person to a senior person. Include one positive snippet about both as you do so: “Sarah, I’d like to introduce Hazel, she started Fashion4 and also leads the “Ladies Who Launch” here in Silicon Valley. Hazel, this is my friend Sarah whom I told you about from…”
9. Managing the party host. When you’re interacting with the host, ask simple questions requiring a ‘Yes/No’ response. I’ve heard disastrous questions in a vain attempt to out alpha-male the host. The best questions to ask of a host are upbeat, light and fluffy. If you want to be Mike Wallace/Chris Matthews with a hardball question, tread lightly. Also, help your host wiggle by wrangling them away from guests who are monopolizing or “hotboxing” them. They will thank you later.
10. Always, always, always: Thank the host before you leave.
Sunday, November 15, 2009
$280 Million to Charity
September 26, 2009 mark the one year anniversary of Paul Newman's death. Paul Newman was well know for his acting career. A lot of people didn't know that he had his own business called Newman's Own.
Sunday, November 8, 2009
20th Anniversary
The picture above was taken on November 10, 1989 when the Germans from the East and the West are standing on the Berlin Wall in front of the Brandenburg Gate, one day after the wall opened.
Sunday, November 1, 2009
A day with George...
We had the opportunity to go and see George Stroumboulopoulos as the host of The Hour, Canada's late night talk show. Our Public Relations Class from Loyalist College was all there!